This week in Guatemala has been many things. It has been a time for hard labor and construction work, a time for intense play with the energetic Guatemalan children, a time for listening to incredible stories from incredible people, and a time for growing closer to each other and to God. Every morning and night we spend together as a group. In the morning, we prepare for the day by studying and talking about Romans 12. At night after dinner, we gather upstairs to recap the day’s events. The last couple of days we have focused Romans 12:4-8 and discussed our gifts, our strengths and our weaknesses.
For just as each of us has one body with many members, and these members do not all have the same function, 5 so in Christ we, though many, form one body, and each member belongs to all the others. 6 We have different gifts, according to the grace given to each of us. If your gift is prophesying, then prophesy in accordance with your[a] faith; 7 if it is serving, then serve; if it is teaching, then teach; 8 if it is to encourage, then give encouragement; if it is giving, then give generously; if it is to lead,[b] do it diligently; if it is to show mercy, do it cheerfully.
Throughout our discussions, many of us constantly agreed that communication is a great struggle. First of all, it takes courage to speak to a complete stranger. Second of all, it takes courage to attempt communicating with a person who speaks an entirely different language than you! Even though I take Spanish in school, I also constantly struggle to understand and communicate with the people here.
Today we visited the women’s prison for the second time. My first time at the prison I sat in silence; I was speechless because I had no clue how to encourage these women when I could barely speak their language. I left the prison that day frustrated because I had been afraid to speak up and worried that I had missed out on a great opportunity to connect with these women. However, God gave me a second chance.
Our plans changed spontaneously when we decided not to go to Panajachel. Instead, our group leader Ashley suggested we return to the women’s prison. I was immediately apprehensive. Once again, God was putting me in a place completely out of my comfort zone where I had had so much frustration with my inability to communicate. God had a plan for me however.
When we arrived at the prison, our group leader Ashley introduced me to a woman named Marina. Marina, I discovered, is from Colombia, which is also my birthplace. I was adopted from Colombia when I was eleven weeks old, and every year as I grow older, I have found that I long to return to Colombia and find out more about my birth family and the country and culture in which I was born. I had no idea that I would have the opportunity in Guatemala to meet a Colombian.
Despite the language barrier, I found that I could understand Marina’s Spanish and that I had enough knowledge of the language to be able to speak to her. I told her about my adoption and a little bit about my life, and I asked her questions about her life and about Colombia. Marina is 51 years old, she has no children, and her brothers, sisters, and parents live in Colombia still. She has been in prison for over 3 years and she has about 10-12 more to go. Because her family is so far away, she cannot see them. Because the Guatemalan prison system charges her money to make a call, she cannot even call and talk to her family because she has no money.
She needed someone to visit her, spend time with her, and listen to her, and I was thrilled to meet someone from the country in which I was born. She talked with me for hours, she brought me to meet the other women in the prison from Colombia, and she helped me pick out a present for my mom. By the end of the day, I felt as if I had been adopted all over again. At lunch, she made sure that I had food to eat, she yelled at the lunch ladies for not bringing my food fast enough, she demanded they make me a cantaloupe milkshake, and she even made sure that I had “salsa” (ketchup) to go with my “Papas Fritas” (French fries).
Ashley joked that we could be family, and we wouldn’t even know it! I told her that she was “Mi Madre Colombiana” (my Colombian mother). When it was time to leave, she followed me to the prison door and went as far as she could so she could say goodbye to me. Her hug and kiss goodbye was one of the tightest and one of the most meaningful I had ever felt. I went out the door, walked a little ways, and turned around to see her waving goodbye to me for as long as the prison guard allowed her to. I waved, and turned the corner to go out of the prison. And the next thing I knew, I was sobbing.
I never imagined going into that prison for the second time that I would form such a strong relationship with a stranger. I went into that prison hoping to encourage, help, and love the women, and in the end, I was the one that had been encouraged, helped, and loved. Marina was not a Christian, and yet she showed me so much compassion and love and she did not judge me. It was hard for me to leave the prison that day knowing I was leaving Marina in such a lonely sad place, and that there was a possibility that I would not see her again, It breaks my heart to think that she is alone now. I don’t know what will become of her, or if I will ever see her again, but I know God has a plan for her life. I left the prison today grateful because God helped me to use my gift of encouragement and communication in Spanish, and that he had given me the opportunity to use my gift with mi Madre Colombiana, Marina.
~Olivia